Often times a woman may try to help her boyfriend overcome performance anxiety. Sometimes us guys forget that performance anxiety not only affects us, but it affects our partners as well. By just taking a look at Google searches it is easy to see that many women are searching for information about how to help their boyfriend overcome performance anxiety.
In my experience, women sometimes believe that their boyfriend’s performance anxiety was caused by something the woman did or didn’t do. On the other end of the spectrum some men assure their girlfriends that the performance anxiety is entirely their problem and that the woman plays no role in his performance in the bedroom. I believe the truth lies somewhere in the middle.